How to Become a “Power Single” by Ms. KCBass

Have you ever heard of the term “power couple”? Sure you have. Power couples are those people in relationships that just have everything going for them. Not only do they love each other, but they are living their best lives. They are #goals for everyone aspiring to be in a relationship.

But what about POWER SINGLES? Yeah, I’m sure you’re giving me all kinds of stank eye, but there is a group of strengthened-through-trial women that are taking the forefront in the world. They are present in education, politics, business, ministry, and more. They are power singles. Do you know any of these types of women? Are you one?

Authentically Herself

A power single thrives in AUTHENTICITY. She is self-assured and needs no validation. She is highly recommended not just for her skill but for her ability to love deeply and create passionately. Her character is above reproach, and her mind is her most attractive asset. She is deeply connected to God and leads with her spirit, not her emotions. She sets the trends, regulates the tone, and dances to her own song. She is skillful in business and a careful steward of her investments. She knows how to prioritize and is her own biggest fan. People love her because she loves herself. There is no thirst for attention in her, but only a thirst for adventure. By the grace of God, she has transmuted every trial into a victory. And all of this she does POWERFULLY.

Now that we have established who she is, let’s talk about who she is not. She is not DISINGENUOUS! She is not a pretender or partially masked. She is not timid or fearful. She is not lethargic or emotionless. She is not callous, cold, or calculating. She is not stingy or selfish. She is not judgmental or controlling. She is neither shallow nor is she dense with her past. She is not held captive by trauma. She is not a poster child for a poverty mindset. Can you visualize her, the POWER SINGLE?

Becoming Powerfully Single

YOU ARE A POWER SINGLE. Though you may fall, you never fail; you learn. I hope that this change in perspective has widened your range of possibilities for your life. I hope that it has increased your desire for more opportunities. I hope that it has incited the awakening of fresh vision in your spirit. Abundance and resources are at your fingertips; you don’t have to beg. Your prayers have aligned you with the will of a Father who wants nothing more than to pour His goodness out on you. Walk in that identity. Yes, ma’am, it is already done.

And to think you thought I was talking about someone else. Exhale, my sister. The POWER SINGLE is YOU.

-Blessings

KCBass

About the Author

KCBass is a mentor and spiritual leader that resides in Raleigh, NC.

She is the CEO of Girls That Lead, LLC with the aim of empowering women to embrace their greatest success.